S.O.A.R.
She Overcomes, Arises & Is Renewed
A Women’s Group Healing Retreat for Betrayal Trauma
Are you experiencing the pain of betrayal in a close relationship? Whether caused by infidelity, addiction, or emotional manipulation, betrayal trauma can leave you feeling lost, broken, and unsure of how to move forward. You may experience:
- intrusive thoughts
- obsessive checking
- nightmares/insomnia
- lack of trust
- a crisis of faith
- crying spells
- loss of hope
- fear of the future
- loneliness
- anger
- anxiety
- fear of loss
This 3-day group healing retreat offers a safe, supportive space for women like you to process your pain, reclaim your strength, and embark on a journey of healing and growth.
Evidence-Based Treatment for Recovery & Growth.
This Healing Retreat is Ideal for Women Who:
- Are struggling with the effects of betrayal in their relationships.
- Want to heal in a safe and supportive environment.
- Are ready to take steps toward healing and personal growth.
- Want to keep their faith at the center of their treatment.
What to Expect
Our Women’s Betrayal Trauma Healing Retreat is led by two seasoned professionals with over 50 years of combined experience in trauma recovery:
- Danielle Lew, APSATS-Trained Coach – Specializing in helping women heal from betrayal and rebuild their confidence.
- Michele Montenegro, LCSW, Certified EMDR Therapist – A trauma-trained clinician dedicated to guiding women through evidence-based healing.
You’re Not Alone – Join A Community of Women Who Understand.
Expert Support to Help You Rebuild Trust and Confidence.
Pre-Healing Retreat Support
Individual Session (60 Minutes)
A personalized one-on-one session to determine your unique needs and prepare you for the intensive.
Individual Coaching Session (60 Minutes)
Connect with questions, support and goal development.
3-Day Faith-Based Healing Retreat
Experience three transformative days packed with therapeutic and educational activities:
4 Interactive & Engaging Workshops
Learn evidence-based tools and strategies to understand and navigate betrayal trauma.
6 EMDR Therapy Sessions
Participate in guided EMDR sessions to process trauma and resolve your pain.
1 Group Clinical Session
Practice grounding techniques and build coping strategies in a supportive group setting.
3 Group Talk Sessions
Share your journey, connect with others, and gain insights through facilitated discussions.
Post-Healing Retreat Support
Post-Assessment Consultation (30 Minutes)
A follow-up session to evaluate progress and provide further recommendations.
Coaching Call (30 Minutes)
Create a personalized plan for maintaining growth and healing after the intensive.
Additional Perks
Snacks and Drinks
Stay energized throughout the intensive with complimentary refreshments.Workbook and Writing Materials
Receive a curated workbook and additional resources to enhance your learning and reflection.
2025 Dates
Apr. 3,4,5
Jun. 5,6,7
Jul. 18,19,20
Oct. 10,11,12
Nov. 14,15,16
Redefine Your Future and Thrive.

A group EMDR intensive or healing retreat can address many of the same concerns as an individual intensive, but all participants share a common experience or reason for attending.
Examples may include:
- Women experiencing betrayal trauma
- Victims of a natural disaster
- Families of a loved one diagnosed with cancer
- Medical patients with a shared diagnosis
- First responders with the same career or job
- Individuals struggling with divorce
Each participant will complete a pre-assessment consultation before starting a group EMDR Intensive or Healing Retreat. During the consultation, we will explore your needs and determine if the group is the right option for you. If it is, we’ll conduct a screening to assess your current situation and readiness for this type of healing work.
If the group isn’t the best fit, we’ll provide alternative treatment options to better suit your needs. Your healing is our main priority.
All participants will be provided with a workbook or journal as well as writing materials. Additional literature and resources may be recommended based on the group’s unique needs.
We intentionally keep our groups small to foster a sense of safety, connection, and personalized care. Our groups do not exceed 10 participants. We include two professionals: one leading the session and one assisting.
Sharing is never required. However, we do offer designated times for connection. Many participants find this time helpful, as shared experiences can foster a sense of belonging, validation, and support. This often helps reduce feelings of loneliness and shame.
The specifics of each group EMDR intensive or healing retreat vary depending on the group’s needs.
Detailed information will be shared once you reach out to learn more.
All group EMDR intensives & healing retreats are currently scheduled for three full days.
Pricing varies depending on the group, typically ranging from $1,800 to $2,400 for three full 8-hour days (excluding lodging and meals). A 50% deposit is required to confirm your reservation, with the remaining balance due on the first day of the intensive.
We accept cash, checks, HSA, FSA, and all major credit cards.
Due to limited spots and reserved locations, we ask that you contact us as soon as possible if you need to reschedule. We’ll work together to find a new date, and your deposit or payment will remain unaffected.
For cancellations:
- More than 30 days prior: Deposits will be refunded, minus a $1,000 scheduling fee.
- Within 30 days of your scheduled date: Deposits are fully non-refundable.
This policy helps ensure fairness and allows us to accommodate others seeking care. Thank you for your understanding.
Group locations are dependent on specific dates and are often determined closer to the time of the event. Participants are welcome to travel from anywhere in the world to attend. If you plan to travel, we will provide detailed information on local accommodations, transportation options, nearby airports, and the local area to assist with planning. We strive to ensure all locations are private, comfortable, and conducive to healing.
Yes, every intensive & healing retreat includes a post-assessment consultation to review progress and offer tailored recommendations for ongoing support. Additionally, a follow-up coaching call is provided to help review and plan future goals.
If any concerns arise after the post-intensive/retreat consultation, you are welcome to reach out via phone or email, and we can schedule a follow-up.
Mission
To help others live with the freedom and joy that connecting our mind and heart bringsVision
So that we may live with our whole beingValues
- Integrity - Honest & Responsible
- Competence - Clinically Sound & Continually Growing
- Relationship - Belonging & Community
- Self Determination - Honoring the Inherent Dignity of All
- Privacy - Legally and Ethically Abiding
- Faith - Guided by Trust & Devotion